Is It Possible To Manifest The Love I’ve Always Desired?
Love is one of the most common things people want to manifest. And it’s really not as hard as you think. You can manifest the perfect love and your dream relationship just like you always wanted it to be.
Like anything else you want to manifest or have manifested, it is all about how you feel and how you see yourself in a specific situation. In this case, it is how you feel about love and how see yourself towards love.
Here you’ll find all you need to know about how to manifest love and the relationship of your dreams.
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Can I Really Manifest Love?
Yes! You can manifest anything you like including love. You can be with the person of your dreams whether you know this person or not.
There is no special technique or something extra you need to do. You just need to embody the version of yourself who is already in that relationship. That is all you need to do and know.
We often read or hear advice on how we need to do certain techniques for a certain amount of days to manifest love. But that’s not true. The process to manifest love is just like any other manifestation.
You first need to be clear on what you want. Then set intentions with the help of your favorite manifestation technique. And finally assume the reality of already having your ideal partner and the relationship of your dreams.
Remember that you have been manifesting all your life. Up to this point, you have been doing it unconsciously. But from today forward, you can manifest the love you want as a conscious manifestor.
How To Manifest Love
As I already mentioned, you just need to embody the version of yourself that is in your dream relationship. It’s really simple.
Sorry if you wanted to find out about a certain missing key to manifest love. There isn’t.
The reason why you don’t have the love you want is that up to this point you are in a place where you don’t feel you have the love of your dreams.
Here is where it gets tricky to manifest love for most people. They come from a place of neediness and lack. And I’m 100% sure that you won’t be having those feelings if you were already a boyfriend or girlfriend to someone else.
You need to be thinking from the version of you having that relationship. This person would be thinking like this:
- I’m so grateful for having this amazing relationship
- I am so loved by my partner
- My partner is so committed to me
- My partner is constantly thinking about me
- I’m the love of his/her life
You need to constantly be thinking like this so you can embed these assumptions in your subconscious mind.
Remember that what you assume is what you experience in your reality.
Manifest Love From Scratch
If you want to manifest a person that meets your requirements, here is what you need to do. In a journal or in your notes app list all the characteristics you want this person to have. You can be as specific as you want. In fact, I have manifested partners with very specific characteristics like age, hair & eye color, and even them having a certain career. So there is no limit to your requirements.
After finishing with this list, embody the version of yourself that is already with this person. You can do this with your favorite manifestation technique. You can visualize it or script it. Maybe you are better at doing affirmations throughout the day. It doesn’t matter. Remember that your feelings of already having your desire are what manifest and not the actual technique.
For example, if you are more of a visual person, visualize a scene implying you are in a fulfilled relationship. You can imagine telling your best friend all about this relationship of yours. Or a scene where you are holding hands with your partner.
You can also script a journal entry where you write the details of your relationship. Like this: “Today we have so much fun together. My partner planned out a romantic date and he surprised me with a rose and gift. He took me to my favorite Italian restaurant. We ate the most delicious pasta and then we went to the movie”. You get the idea.
Whatever method you prefer, remember the key is to embody the feelings of your wish fulfilled as if you already have it right now. Be the version of you that already is in this amazing relationship.
The Actual Steps To Manifest Love
As you can see, manifesting love is very easy. You can choose the manifestation technique that best suits you. You don’t have to do them all. Just make the one that feels natural to you.
Step #1: Get The Details And Characteristics Of Your Ideal Partner
Grab a pen and paper or your notes app. Write down every detail you can imagine. They can be physical details like hair color, height, nationality, and all you can think of. You can also list treats you want this person to have.
You can be as specific as you want. Write every detail you want your ideal partner to have.
Step #2: Assume Being In Your Dream Relationship Already
After your list is done, now you need to think from the version of you that already is in a relationship with a person you previously described. Think and feel from that version of yourself.
Imagine already being in your dream relationship. How would you feel? What would you think? Embody this version of yourself.
Use whatever manifestation method you like. If you visualize, imagine a scene of holding hands with your partner. If you are more of a hearing type of person, create a mental conversation where you tell your best friend all about this new awesome and best relationship of your life.
You can also script. Write an entry describing a day in your relationship in great detail. If scripting is your technique you can also try writing a scripting letter from the point of view of your future self to your present past self. This way you can easily tune in to that version of you being already in the relationship.
These are just examples of how to use a manifestation method to manifest love. You can manifest however your like. Maybe you can script a letter to your best friend or dear one telling all about your partner and the amazing relationship you have.
There is no set and stone way to manifest. The only thing you need to manifest is your assumptions and feelings about what you want.
Affirmations and keeping a good mental diet are the best way to assume that reality. Affirm like it’s already a fact. Be confident and solid on this. Think like it is set and a normal thing to you.
Step #3: Rewrite Your Old Story
This step is only for those who had bad experiences in a past relationship. It is similar to the step above. Become the version of yourself who didn’t experience that bad situation in the first place.
Revising and having a good mental diet is the best method to rewrite your old story and rewire your subconscious mind. Constantly affirm your new reality, the one where you already have your dream relationship with your ideal partner.
In the beginning, it can be exhausting but that’s only because you’re reprogramming your subconscious mind. As you affirm daily, it will become easier.
Another thing you can also do is revise your past. This process is called revision. You are revising your past to change everything around it. By changing it I mean changing your internal assumptions, changing the outcome from your previous assumptions, and changing what other people experienced or said about that situation.
Manifesting love isn’t and shouldn’t be a complicated process. Remember you are constantly manifesting and love is just like manifesting any other thing or situation.
Like anything you manifest, just follow four simple steps: decide what you like, choose your manifestation method, set the intentions, and assume your reality where you are in the relationship of your dreams.
If you had bad relationships in your past, revise them. It could be hard to constantly affirm your new reality when your past is telling you the opposite. That’s why you need to stay on top of your thoughts. Get a good mental diet and in no time you’ll be having the most amazing relationship.
Also, see:
+ How To Use Scripting To Manifest Your Dream Life
+ How Manifestation Changed My Life
+ 3 Simple Steps To Manifest Anything With A Scripting Letter
